When parents cannot agree, a judge decides custody based on the best interests of the child. That standard sounds vague, but courts look at specific factors.
What judges consider
- Each parent’s involvement in daily care
- The child’s adjustment to home, school and community
- Each parent’s willingness to support the other relationship
- Any history of violence or substance abuse
What helps
Keep a simple calendar of parenting time, communicate in writing and stay respectful, and never discuss the case with your children. Judges notice.
